Ever really hope that a person will change for you or
because of you? Well I call this waiting on an apple tree to grow oranges,
because that is exactly what we are doing in that situation. When we wait on
other people to change we put ourselves through a waiting, wondering, and
whining process. Not only is doing this unfair to you, it is also unfair to the
Nobody is going to change for you, the sooner you can accept
that the better. We don’t wait for people to change, we do it out of ignorance.
Either learn to accept the person as they are right now, or gracefully walk
away and go somewhere else. While we can inspire people to change, when we
expect them to, it can make the relationship painful, frustrating and
uncomfortable for both people. Don’t
wait, you are only prolonging the disappointment.