Self-Betrayal

January 22, 2016 By aidarojas

Hurt, Anger, & Unmet Needs ( Star Wars Yoda Quote )

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Hello Graceful Forgiver!

Today we will talk about anger. The real root of anger is an unmet need or expectation, and all it really means is that you need to have a conversation. This could be a conversation with yourself or with the person who you are angry at. The point is not to lash out at people, but to further understand your needs and theirs. Oftentimes we may be in situation where we are wanting a specific need to be met, but the other person also needs that need met. This can lead to anger, frustration, hurt, and maybe even hate if you allow the feelings to fester.

Finding ways to meet our own needs or finding people who are willing and able to, we can begin to release our expectations on the other person.From the wise words of Master Yoda : “Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.” If someone has hurt you, or left you hanging, find a way to let it go. Holding on to anger and hurt, or coming with ways to get back at the other person, will not help you in the long run.

Do your very best to find forgiveness, understanding, and compassion. This will allow you to move on with your life in peace. Learn from the situation, and do whatever it takes to move past it. In the long run this will make you stronger and more resilient, and it will also help you know more about your needs, and the people you need to associate yourself with to get them met. Remember to always look at the bright side!

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October 30, 2015 By aidarojas

Consequences Of Ignoring The Elephant In The Room

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Hello Amazing!

Today I share how ignoring my personal problems and setting them in the back burner in order to focus on my business totally backfired! If you ignore the elephant in the room, one day it will just show up and eat you up! If you are having personal problems or have relationships that may be a little bit rocky, you need to take the time to stop and address them. No matter how much you believe that you can put your personal life on hold in order to grow your business, it tends to actually not work. I encourage you to face your personal problems, work through them, and deal with them. This will help you lead a happier personal life as well as have a more successful business without interruptions or personal emergencies.

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September 16, 2015 By aidarojas

When Little is Known, Much Is Imagined

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Hello Wanderer!

Our curiosity and our imaginations are great tools that allow us to open our mind. But sometimes when we know very little about a particular person or situation we tend to want to create either a best case scenario or a worst case scenario. This can lead us to become our own best friends or our own worst enemies. Our imagination can be a double edged sword and can lead us to feel fear or freedom. In today’s episode I encourage you to tap into your imagination to find the unstoppable, creative, passionate warrior that is inside of you right now, just waiting for the door to open. Be your best friend, be on your side, and use your imagination to your benefit, not to your detriment.

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September 9, 2015 By aidarojas

We Forge The Chains We Wear In Life – Our Own Worst Enemies

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Hey Wonderful! : )

Today we will be talking about serious stuff. Oftentimes we blame other people, or outside circumstances for hurting us, for holding us back, isn’t it so much easier to point the finger than to take responsibility? Good times and bad times come and go, but if we always allow circumstances to overpower us we will not evolve and grow.

When we learn from our mistakes, and move through them in a forgiving way we can stop being so hard on ourselves and allow ourselves to have a second chance. Forgiving ourselves and releasing ourselves from being hopeless and playing the victim role will allow us to break the patter and break free of the chains we have created for ourselves.
Life is willing to give you a second chance, but are you willing to give one to yourself? Be kind to yourself. You are the only person that you will have a relationship with your entire life. Learn to forgive yourself, say yes to yourself, treat yourself right, meet your own needs, and release the heavy and burdensome chains of guilt, shame, and fear.
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September 2, 2015 By aidarojas

Are You Waiting On An Apple Tree To Grow Oranges?

Hey Awesome!

Ever really hope that a person will change for you or
because of you? Well I call this waiting on an apple tree to grow oranges,
because that is exactly what we are doing in that situation. When we wait on
other people to change we put ourselves through a waiting, wondering, and
whining process. Not only is doing this unfair to you, it is also unfair to the
other person.

Nobody is going to change for you, the sooner you can accept
that the better. We don’t wait for people to change, we do it out of ignorance.
Either learn to accept the person as they are right now, or gracefully walk
away and go somewhere else. While we can inspire people to change, when we
expect them to, it can make the relationship painful, frustrating and
uncomfortable for both people. Don’t
wait, you are only prolonging the disappointment.

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