Hey There Wonderful!
Today I will be sharing with you how to reduce your anxiety, neutralize it and transform it into positive and uplifting energy by creating healthy boundaries.
Own Your Femininity or Masculinity
Hello Gorgeous!
Today we will be focusing on how you can OWN your femininity, or masculinity in order to attract meaningful and lasting relationships. When you do not own your femininity, you will attract men who can not commit, have no back bone, and seem indecisive. When you do not own your masculinity you will attract women who are needy, demanding, pushy, and controlling. This dynamic is a result of OUR own inability to completely embody our identity, sexuality, and the fundamental essence of our presence. When we do not OWN ourselves, we leave room for fear, insecurity, and other negative emotions to creep in. Also since we don’t know who we are or what we want, we are not able to create a lasting union with another person, and all relationships end in heartbreak and disappointment.
On the other hand, when BOTH partners own their individual femininity or masculinity, only then are they able to create a lasting union through harmony and balance. Neither partner is needy or insecure, since they both know who they are and what they want, there is NO ROOM for that.Today I encourage you to pay attention to your relationships and to your behavior. ARE YOU OWNING YOUR ESSENCE? If you are, you will attract other people who are doing the same, if you are not, you will continue to encounter relationships that mirror your insecurities and create heartache and headaches in your life. For More Content Like This Visit My Blog Aida Rojas.com
Our Capacity To Love Can Never Be Lost
Hello Wonderful!
First I want to say Happy Valentine’s Day! Love is one of my favorite subjects in the world, so I want to take the time today to invite you to pause and contemplate where you are in your relationship with love. Whether you are single or in a relationship doesn’t really matter. Love is WHO YOU ARE, and the more open you are to it, the more that it will expand you and the more love that will flow from you to others, and vise versa.
Love is not something that can be taken away from us, EVER. We sometimes have limiting beliefs that when the person we love, our love goes with them, but that is far from the truth. Love can never be lost, ever, because YOU ARE love. It’s like trying to extract water from water, you can’t, that is it’s natural state. I encourage you to focus on expanding your capacity to love and be loved. Allow the flow of it to flow through you, and do not let it depend on someone else’s presence in order to feel this wonderful essence of who you were BORN to be. You are love, and your capacity to love can help you expand, lover yourself and love others more. Love is like a practice, the more you love, the more you love, the more you love. There is no end to this constant magical flow.
When we share our love it is such an amazing feeling. It’s like a high and an outrageous feeling that makes us feel like unstoppable giants. This is why I encourage you to not be afraid to be the one who loves the most when you are in a relationship. I always strive to be the one who loves the most, and it is an empowering and expanding feeling. The secret about being the one who loves the most is that that person is the happiest, and is generous, kind, patient, and loving, automatically, almost without effort.
So whether you are in a relationship or not, treat yourself today to a wonderful day of love and surround yourself with the absolute majestic essence of WHO YOU ARE. Again Love isn’t something someone can take away from your or give to you, everyone is love and everyone is a container of love. Our goal is to make our container bigger and bigger every single day to expand our capacity to allow love to come in and flow out without fear or resistance.
I hope that you all have a fantastic LOVE FILLED Valentine’s Day! Thank you for tuning in and I’ll be back soon.
** Side Note: I am working on a book, so Season 2 of Love Dream Live will be coming in March. Thank you for your patience, and have a wonderful amazing Day!! : )
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Making and Keeping Money & Relationships : )
Hello Abundant Connector!
Today I will talk about limiting beliefs that we have placed upon ourselves that prevent us from enjoying connection with others, as well as enjoying monetarily success. Starting relationships, starting to make money can be easy, but sustaining that connection or that flow of money is oftentimes much harder to do. Making and keeping money and relationships can be challenging because it is not something we go get. We need to be open, and receptive to them and allow them to flow to us. For you to be open to receiving these wonderful gifts you MUST believe that you deserve them, and that they are possible to attain.
I encourage you to try to discover how you are keeping yourself from freedom and connection, by having money blocks, as well as fear of getting close to other people. There’s plenty of love and money to go around, but if you are not open and aware, you could be missing it and be living in despair, isolation and frustration. Have the strength to release your lack mentality, and wisdom to open up to the wonderful flow of everything good in life.
Relationships and money are very related, the chances are high that if one is not going well, the other one will follow. Pay attention and be aware to what you tell yourself about money, and about love. Believe that you are enough, and believe that you will have enough. This can make a world of a difference in your life.
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Hurt, Anger, & Unmet Needs ( Star Wars Yoda Quote )
Hello Graceful Forgiver!
Today we will talk about anger. The real root of anger is an unmet need or expectation, and all it really means is that you need to have a conversation. This could be a conversation with yourself or with the person who you are angry at. The point is not to lash out at people, but to further understand your needs and theirs. Oftentimes we may be in situation where we are wanting a specific need to be met, but the other person also needs that need met. This can lead to anger, frustration, hurt, and maybe even hate if you allow the feelings to fester.
Finding ways to meet our own needs or finding people who are willing and able to, we can begin to release our expectations on the other person.From the wise words of Master Yoda : “Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.” If someone has hurt you, or left you hanging, find a way to let it go. Holding on to anger and hurt, or coming with ways to get back at the other person, will not help you in the long run.
Do your very best to find forgiveness, understanding, and compassion. This will allow you to move on with your life in peace. Learn from the situation, and do whatever it takes to move past it. In the long run this will make you stronger and more resilient, and it will also help you know more about your needs, and the people you need to associate yourself with to get them met. Remember to always look at the bright side! 
( NOTE: Stay TUNED! Although there will be a new podcast only on Friday’s for the next few weeks, Season 2 of Love Dream Live is coming soon! ** Late February ** ) – Aida : )