Inspirational Self-Discovery Podcast
Hello Wonderful!
Today let’s talk about feeling sad and alone, if you are experiencing this, there is a 90% chance that you are living in your head, and you are looking at life from the VERY limited perspective of your mind. Today I encourage you to silence your mind, and step into your heart, to feel a greater sense of unity and emotional connection with yourself and your world.
Returning to your childlike vulnerability through breaking the barriers that keep you from love, hope, innocence, freedom, joy and more.
Hello Wonderful!
First I want to say Happy Valentine’s Day! Love is one of my favorite subjects in the world, so I want to take the time today to invite you to pause and contemplate where you are in your relationship with love. Whether you are single or in a relationship doesn’t really matter. Love is WHO YOU ARE, and the more open you are to it, the more that it will expand you and the more love that will flow from you to others, and vise versa.
Love is not something that can be taken away from us, EVER. We sometimes have limiting beliefs that when the person we love, our love goes with them, but that is far from the truth. Love can never be lost, ever, because YOU ARE love. It’s like trying to extract water from water, you can’t, that is it’s natural state. I encourage you to focus on expanding your capacity to love and be loved. Allow the flow of it to flow through you, and do not let it depend on someone else’s presence in order to feel this wonderful essence of who you were BORN to be. You are love, and your capacity to love can help you expand, lover yourself and love others more. Love is like a practice, the more you love, the more you love, the more you love. There is no end to this constant magical flow.
When we share our love it is such an amazing feeling. It’s like a high and an outrageous feeling that makes us feel like unstoppable giants. This is why I encourage you to not be afraid to be the one who loves the most when you are in a relationship. I always strive to be the one who loves the most, and it is an empowering and expanding feeling. The secret about being the one who loves the most is that that person is the happiest, and is generous, kind, patient, and loving, automatically, almost without effort.
So whether you are in a relationship or not, treat yourself today to a wonderful day of love and surround yourself with the absolute majestic essence of WHO YOU ARE. Again Love isn’t something someone can take away from your or give to you, everyone is love and everyone is a container of love. Our goal is to make our container bigger and bigger every single day to expand our capacity to allow love to come in and flow out without fear or resistance.
I hope that you all have a fantastic LOVE FILLED Valentine’s Day! Thank you for tuning in and I’ll be back soon.
** Side Note: I am working on a book, so Season 2 of Love Dream Live will be coming in March. Thank you for your patience, and have a wonderful amazing Day!! : )
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Hello Empowered Spirit!
Today we will talk about those people in our lives who believe that they have the best intentions for us, and have mistreated us, misguided us, or overprotected us. This can be parents, spouses, siblings, or anyone in your life who you may have tolerated their over-bearing personality to the degree that you feel helpless and don’t feel like you have the courage to stand up to them and let them know that you have had enough.
No matter how well their intentions, you need to take charge of your own life, and make your own decisions, even if it means that you will make mistakes. Learned helplessness is when we have tolerated a situation so many times, that it doesn’t seem like there is an alternative. But the good news is that there is! This is YOUR life, and it is up to YOU what you do or don’t do, and anyone who doesn’t agree needs to kindly be ejected.
Sometimes out of our need for approval or belonging, we feel that we have to do things in a certain way to make other people happy. The truth is that your happiness should come before anyone else’s, not out of selfishness, but out of self respect. Respect yourself, by standing up to the other person. Let them know that they need to respect you and your choices, and that you will not continue to do things their way. This can take serious courage, but you will feel better once all is said and done. If the other person argues or decides to leave, that is their choice, and you need to respect that, and move on.
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Hello Graceful Forgiver!
Today we will talk about anger. The real root of anger is an unmet need or expectation, and all it really means is that you need to have a conversation. This could be a conversation with yourself or with the person who you are angry at. The point is not to lash out at people, but to further understand your needs and theirs. Oftentimes we may be in situation where we are wanting a specific need to be met, but the other person also needs that need met. This can lead to anger, frustration, hurt, and maybe even hate if you allow the feelings to fester.
Finding ways to meet our own needs or finding people who are willing and able to, we can begin to release our expectations on the other person.From the wise words of Master Yoda : “Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.” If someone has hurt you, or left you hanging, find a way to let it go. Holding on to anger and hurt, or coming with ways to get back at the other person, will not help you in the long run.
Do your very best to find forgiveness, understanding, and compassion. This will allow you to move on with your life in peace. Learn from the situation, and do whatever it takes to move past it. In the long run this will make you stronger and more resilient, and it will also help you know more about your needs, and the people you need to associate yourself with to get them met. Remember to always look at the bright side! 
( NOTE: Stay TUNED! Although there will be a new podcast only on Friday’s for the next few weeks, Season 2 of Love Dream Live is coming soon! ** Late February ** ) – Aida : )