Self-Expression

February 19, 2016 By aidarojas

Own Your Femininity or Masculinity

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Hello Gorgeous!

Today we will be focusing on how you can OWN your femininity, or masculinity in order to attract meaningful and lasting relationships. When you do not own your femininity, you will attract men who can not commit, have no back bone, and seem indecisive. When you do not own your masculinity you will attract women who are needy, demanding, pushy, and controlling. This dynamic is a result of OUR own inability to completely embody our identity, sexuality, and the fundamental essence of our presence. When we do not OWN ourselves, we leave room for fear, insecurity, and other negative emotions to creep in. Also since we don’t know who we are or what we want, we are not able to create a lasting union with another person, and all relationships end in heartbreak and disappointment.

On the other hand, when BOTH partners own their individual femininity or masculinity, only then are they able to create a lasting union through harmony and balance. Neither partner is needy or insecure, since they both know who they are and what they want, there is NO ROOM for that.Today I encourage you to pay attention to your relationships and to your behavior. ARE YOU OWNING YOUR ESSENCE? If you are, you will attract other people who are doing the same, if you are not, you will continue to encounter relationships that mirror your insecurities and create heartache and headaches in your life. For More Content Like This Visit My Blog Aida Rojas.com

February 12, 2016 By aidarojas

Living In Denial, Acting & Masks

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Hello Authentic Creator!

Today let’s talk about being authentic, and being your absolute truest self to others, and to yourself. Living in denial, putting up a front and running away from your problems, only delays the situation. Acting, and always wearing different masks for different people can get exhausting, and it surrounds you with people who don’t really know who you are. If you ever get a feeling that you are really alone, even though you are surrounded by others, maybe the truth is that you are not being yourself. Hiding aspects of ourselves in order to be more likable or feel accepted can seem like a good solution.

In the long run, this can create a full blown theater where you are the actor, you wear many masks, and you have orchestrated a life of falseness and lies. You don’t trust other people, because you don’t trust yourself, and this can lead to countless heartaches and headaches down the road. Today I encourage you to be authentic, not only to yourself, but to other people. Have the courage and determination to face your problems head on, and don’t live in denial. Wearing masks and pretending is only a temporary solution, and will not solve anything. When your act falls apart and feels unsustainable, you will crumble and feel the weight of the world fall on you. Save yourself from going through hell, by simply being honest from the start. : )

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December 11, 2015 By aidarojas

What is Not Expressed Is Depressed

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Hello Friend!

Today we will talk about every thought, feeling, and dream that you have suppressed. Mark Nepo’s quote reminds us that ” What is Not Expressed is Depressed” so each and every one of your suppressed emotions and thoughts become stones that you carry around with you. Your mind is always searching for ways to express these different emotions and bring them into the physical world, whether you are aware of it or not.

Over time, small stones become giant boulders that eventually weigh you down and keep you from being able to experience life. The stones weigh you down so much that you numb yourself and nothing and nobody around you moves you or touches you anymore. The stones create a prison that KEEPS you from joy, love, happiness and fulfillment.

Today I encourage you to express yourself, if you have positive or negative emotions find a way to feel them through and release them, find ways to heal, find ways to acknowledge and address them so that they don’t continue to haunt you and you can find peace, and a sense of relief. Do yourself a favor today, pick something that you have been running away from and hiding, and face it, express yourself, work through it, and keep doing that with each and every heavy stone that stands between you and happiness.

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July 28, 2015 By aidarojas

Ask Directly For What You Want, Nobody Can Read Your Mind

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Hey Hey Amazing!

Today I will share with you the importance of asking directly for what you want. Having crystal clear communication when expressing your needs and wants is imperative since nobody can read your mind. Unfortunately if we hope and wish that other people will know what we want and do it, it will rarely happen and it will leave us feeling hurt and resentful. There is no need to play mind games, all it takes is being direct, and being open to the possibility of a NO. Life is simple when you ask for what you want with confidence.

July 21, 2015 By aidarojas

It Doesn’t Matter How Anyone Else Sees You, It Only Matters How You See Yourself

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Hi There!

Welcome to this Episode of Love Dream Live. Today we will cover how it doesn’t matter how anyone else sees you, it only matters how you see yourself. I encourage you to stop comparing yourself to other people, you can’t shine like anyone else, and nobody else can shine like you. I share a few lines from The Sunscreen Song that read: “ Don’t waste your time on jealousy. Sometimes you’re ahead, sometimes you’re behind. The race is long and in the end, it’s only with yourself. The goal today is to see yourself as the fabulous and wonderful person that you are, and to only compare yourself with how you were before, not by trying to stand next to anyone else.