There is no point in holding on o that which has already shaped us. In our attempt to remember and be remembered, we insist on holding on to people and things that have given significance to our life. However, sometimes it is holding on to that which no longer serves us that keeps us feeling stuck and uninspired. In our stubbornness, we believe that holding on to these certain things will make us stronger, when in reality they can be holding us back from more.